Happy Saturday People! So much for a mother in a lifetime! My mother didn’t have much and had 3 girls to raise and I believe she did the best she could with what she had and when she left this world I had many regrets of not doing more for her! I can tell you whether you have a good or bad relationship with your mother when she leaves this world you will wish you had done more than you did even if you did a lot! You will be the one to suffer with regret when that special someone goes to Heaven as they will be in their best life at that point but you will be left to deal with your thoughts and feelings that you can’t change while on earth! I tried my best as a young mither of two children 3 years apart and I can tell you I made many mistakes and the struggles were real! I love my kids with all I have and would do anything for them and although I made mistakes my kids are great adult humans! I can also tell you I would be a much better mother at 50 than I was at 20 just because of life experiences and priorities! When we are young parents we have to work a lot to make ends meet sometimes they do sometimes they don’t we think everything has to be clean and put up and in order and we struggle with enough time to take care of everything! When my kids were small I was that mom everything had a place put it there but as a Nana it is not the same! My two granddaughters and their friends come to my house and I let them run and do what they want I will cleanup when they go home! I miss having a house full of kids as when my kids were teens we had a houseful daily and I made sure they had things to do and food to eat and I don’t think many of them even knew my name I was just “mom” and I loved it and now most of the kids come here call me “nana” and I’m blessed every single time I hear it! If your child is one that stays here just know they are spoiled rotten and very well taken care of 🙂… Take the time needed while they are young I promise it doesn’t last that long before time moves and they are grown and I promise you will miss it!!! I don’t see my grands as much as I would love to but like my own as the kids get older time is less and less and as we grow older we miss it more and more! I think sometimes life is backwards as if only we knew at 20 what we know at 50 wow would life had been different at 20! I am thankful my God has let me grow older and wiser as some do not get that privilege .. use your time well as it doesn’t last as long as you think it does and if you think …. I will do it tomorrow or make things right tomorrow you very well might not get that chance as we are not promised another second! Take care of things today while you can and see how good life is after that! I hope everyone has a blessed day ❤️.. I know I am!